This weeks Celebrity Guest is BBFF
Amber from Abergontrail
If you like what you read here check out her blog and be sure to leave her some love!
What is your blog about?
I started blogging at Weddingbee.com as Mrs. Kiwi, then began trying to conceive not too long after I "retired" from the wedding blog and started up a personal blog (
http://intoourlife.blogspot.com/). I didn't think it'd take me a year to get pregnant, but it did! So that blog is all about my life and my bitterness. :) A month before I got pregnant I moved to wordpress and bought my own domain name-
http://ambergontrail.com/ (a play on Oregon Trail, a game I played in school). I wanted to start anew, with a new blog for what I hoped would be a new baby soon. Well, it worked! I got pregnant and thus my blog told the story of my pregnancy, my labor and delivery, and now, my life as a parent of an almost two year old. It's been a great outlet for sure.
How many children do you have?
I have one daughter, Piper Jane (who will be two on Thanksgiving this year), and one miniature dachshund named Woofie, who will be 7 (in people years!!) the day after Thanksgiving.
Did you breastfeed?
Yep! I nursed exclusively from birth to 17.5 months. I think it came pretty easily to me, luckily, and we didn't have to supplement once. I was SO lucky. I was able to breastfeed exclusively because I brought Piper in to work with me from 6 weeks on and was able to breastfeed all day. Even now she's still here two days a week (while no longer nursing!).
What's the grossest thing you've had to deal with since entering motherhood?
Well, since Piper eats meat and I don't, for me the grossest thing is having to deal with cutting/cooking meat. Then there's the random times she'll vomit and it'll be regurgitated meat. SO GROSS. Oh, and the fact that I nearly pee myself every time I cough or sneeze.
Who are your biggest supporters?
By far my parents and my husband, Paul. Paul works something like 4 jobs (one full time, three small side jobs) in order for us to have things we need, and treats like a trip to Disneyland. I also work full time, but my job just covers the bills, not our rent and expenses. My parents are awesome. Because I don't drive, my dad picks Piper and I up from work on the days Piper comes with me. On the days she is home (Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday), my mom watches her for ten dollars a day (her choice, we're not slave drivers)! We're so lucky to be supported so heavily.
Name something you can't get through the day without.
My Samsung Gravity S! This phone lets me edit and upload pics of Piper to Facebook, twitter (@ambergontrail_ is my handle, it's locked because I'm constantly getting hacked, but send me a request and I'll add you!), to my blog, in a message or email to Paul or my mother in law! It also has Words With Friends (ambergontrail is my name), Pandora, comics and I heart Radio. All sorts of things to keep me busy when Piper is napping and I'm bored but not at home.
Do you see more children in your future?
Absolutely! Although I wish it was more than just one other child, we know we can feasibly care for two children max while living here in Los Angeles, but more than that isn't possible. I'd love more than just two kids, though. Sadface.
In your opinion what was the worst thing about labor?
I'd have to say the buildup to the pushing, because I wasn't able to push Piper out. I was in agony because I needed to push and I had to stop so I could get a c-section since Piper was getting jammed. Worst feeling of my life, for sure. Everyone talks about how great it feels to push your baby out, right? It's because when you're in the push push push stage it's complete torture. I'm bummed I had to miss out on that blissful feeling, although the morphine drip during my c-section was pretty heavenly.
In your opinion what was the worse thing about being pregnant?
The heartburn/acid reflux!! It was so bad during my third tri that I had to stop using Tums and use Pepcid. That was a good thing- Pepcid. And hey, that wives tale about heartburn = tons of hair was right! Piper had a ton of hair at birth!
Do you have any tips for our readers?
Regarding anything child related: Trust your gut. You will know best, and that's it. Nothing goes to plan, ever. EVER. From pregnancy, to labor, to birthing to raising your child, you will always be the last one in on the joke- so try not to get too hung up on what is SUPPOSED to happen, and just accept what WILL happen. You'll be a lot happier when you realize all kids are different, and those jag emails from Babycenter are LYING. At least, that's what I tell myself.